Deirdre's Story

Jackson Powell | April 28, 2014

Why I do Triathlons? In hindsight, I was always a competitor, even when there was no competition.  Every year in high school, I gardened furiously and indiscriminately for a week after school exams as a way of exercising all that pent-up energy and clearing my head.  I hill walked and hiked for years before taking up triathlon and starting to run more competitively.

Before trail running was more than a future germ of an idea in my mind, I aggravated my hiking friends by treating every hill walk as a speed assault course to the mountain top.  While I ran sprint distances on the track in high school (with no great level of success), it took until after college to start tentatively running longer distances, a few shuffling miles at a time.  When I look back from my current vantage point (eight marathons, six half Ironmans and two Ironman distance triathlons among countless other races later), my then-goals were laughably small.  With no concept of how to train, low blood iron and a terrible, heavy drinking twenty-something lifestyle, completing my first 10km race, the Dublin Women’s Mini Marathon in 2000 (in 55 minutes) seemed like a staggering athletic feat.  Thirteen years later, I beat this pace by 10 seconds per kilometre in the 42km run leg of Ironman Sweden.  I am different but the same; the hardened athlete in me excavated from under the layers of mental and physical flab.

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Because it's there.

–Famous Quote By Mallory when asked about his plan to climb mt Everest

My evolution as a runner happened in parallel with my first forays into triathlon.  I joined a club and did my first Olympic distance triathlon, planned at the time as a one-off bucket list feat, at the age of 30, as a very weak swimmer and a casual runner and cyclist and was suddenly thrown into a world of intervals, track work, fartlek runs and over-distance bike rides.  It took a couple of (sometimes reluctant and often low training volume) years, but gradually I became more competitive, hitting the occasional age-group podium.  I instantly loved the world of triathlon, and shortly after, road running as they gave me outlets for that competitive itch.  I wanted to be champion of the world (I still do, reality notwithstanding).  As women, we are taught that being competitive is unladylike.  While we’re encouraged to improve, I’ve been sniped at and subtly chastised so many times by acquaintances for being ‘so competitive’.  How else do we improve and push forward?  How else to improve?  We are, in the end, competing with ourselves, to be the best we can.  If I am to pinpoint two major changes from the softy me that huffed around that first tentative10km in Dublin, they would be: physical wellbeing, and mental toughness.

approaching, perhaps I was escaping that reality by signing up to race in a big city triathlon. Maybe it was just the next thing to mark off a fickle bucket list.

Many know of Mallory’s famous quote “Because it’s there” when he was asked about his plan to climb Mt Everest. However the context is often missed - that it was said out of frustration to dismiss an overbearing reporter. It wasn’t that Mt. Everest was there – It’s that Mallory was.

And so, there I am. I raced and trained. And raced a little more. I found my people, a local triathlon team, Team Z. An incredibly diverse group - we raced to place, to finish, and to have fun. On Team Z, I train with a man who won his age group at Kona last year – in his 60’s. Another is going to Kona this year after also qualifying for this year’s Boston Marathon. She’s blind.

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Others teammates are finishing their first sprint, freaked out about their first open water swim, or unsure about clipping in on their bike. It is the energy of their uncertainty and determination that drives us together – whether to Kona or to step off the beach into the lake. Those triumphs are brilliant and defining to our days together. They are awesome times to be a part of.

And with that, I’m more grounded and humbled – and getting up for the early swim isn’t so difficult. When we lean on each other, I don’t know if I am racing for my team or if they are racing for me, but we are in it together. My teammates on Team Z are amazing – all of them. Suddenly my unease with 40 seems so silly, so far away.

And then…life happens.

To paraphrase John Lennon - ‘Life is what happens when you are making race plans.’ Jobs, relationships, months pass. Friendships come and go. Occasionally, we gain or lose something precious that we can’t imagine life without. We go into and we leave transition. We keep moving forward.

Then, life happened to me. Work transitioned unexpectedly. A personal loss reverberated in every moment of my life’s actions. A promise went un-kept. Love lost a good fight. Moments of doubt became points of soulful struggle. I didn’t know what to do, daily.

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Earlier moments of spontaneity disappeared. The commitment of multi-sport training became a relief. Keeping my training schedule became something regular that, in the midst of uncertainty, I could depend on. The long runs and rides provided solace and space for me to push that big rock in my life uphill. I repeatedly cycled through my questions and self-doubt. I ran away from hard decisions only to return to confront them head on. During 5:30am swims, the long runs, the days where I cycled through my darkest places, I was still moving forward.

My teammates had my back, even without knowing it. On one particularly hot, discouraging day on the bike – I fell back and separated from the group. It was an 80-mile ride and through 40 of those miles, I was a miserable bastard carrying the weight of the world. Just before the halfway point, I came across three teammates struggling with a blown tire. One rider’s boyfriend attempted to fix it and eventually blew a spare. I stepped in to repair it – and blew another spare. Finally, a third spare was produced – and we were able to make it to our SAG at the halfway point.

I finished that ride with them, joking about how us guys couldn’t fix a flat, about how we couldn’t figure things out. Laughing about how life was funny like that. The last 40 miles zoomed by and, by the time we returned, I was a better man.

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At the end of that training and those difficult times, I made it to start of my very first Ironman. When I lined up at that swim start, after a time of loss, difficulty, and struggle - I thought, "I get to spend an entire day to think and do nothing but swim, bike, and run? Cool…”

For so many months, my only reason for training and racing was just to finish the difficult process and make it to the start. However, at that moment, before the starting gun went off – I thought… “Wow – I wonder what this Ironman experience is going to be like?”

It was a good day. I swam, biked, ran and walked a bit. I laughed way more than I expected.

The thing is – what brings me to a place may not be what keeps me there. In my time racing, I’ve discovered many different reasons for why I race – some soulful, some silly. While there is great emphasis in triathlon about doing your best, sometimes you don’t realize your best until you deal with defeat, injury, and bad conditions. As Bukowski says, “What matter most is how you walk through the fire.”

It’s the metaphors of triathlon that are meaningful to me – starting the race, transitioning smoothly, and moving forward. In difficult times, I’ve been able to look back on my training and race experiences and pull strength from them. What is my strategy for transitions in life? When things are difficult – how do I continue to move forward in my career, life, and relationships?

Since then, I’ve completed a second Ironman, a couple of ultra-marathons, the 4.4 mile Chesapeake Bay Swim, and even got a 2nd place podium finish at a local triathlon. I finish towards the middle or back of the pack far more often than I am in the front. I’m good with that.

But back in the evening of my very first Ironman - I came to the finish line at the end of a long race, with arms open to the journey – to all I had lost and all I had gained. I touched my heart and pointed to the heavens to remember those close to me. And for that sublime moment, in that beautiful, fleeting glimpse - I saw the reasons why I race.

Race with gratitude

Jeff

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Jeff's post is posted in our very special blog section called "Your Stories." It is a place to honor fellow athletes who share their stories about why they race triathlons and other endurance sports.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now, you might say that physical wellbeing goes hand in hand with fitness.  Being fit and lean is one component – as the clock ticks steadily towards 40 for me, I am leaner than I have been since I started high school at the age of 13.  I am not a skinny runner (though part of me would love to be), but my body image has become intertwined with my self-image as an athlete. Sure, my Lycra’ed butt is bigger than a Victoria’s Secret model’s, but you can bounce a quarter off it back into your coffee.  Hey, I’m a runner and a cyclist, so I need those glutes - form follows function.

Training and racing has also become a tool for mental health and happiness.  Running is a mood stabilizer and self-led therapy session all in one.  Sometimes on the way out the door, I pick up music and then put it back, forcing myself outside to listen to the beat of my feet and the grumbling insides of my mind, a sieve through which the detruitus and problems of the week are shaken over the miles.  It’s hard to explain that satisfying wash of endorphins from a good workout to someone who doesn’t exercise.  I’ve heard running described as free Prozac, and exercise works the way I’ve heard Prozac does: making me feel like a better version of myself.  

When I started racing, I was terrified of everything.  Open water, cold water, crashing my bike, not finishing.  As the experiences and the training and the races started to stack up, at some point I realised:  I can do this. Not always brilliantly, but always moving, overcoming the odds. While I am a strong triathlete and runner, it hasn’t been easily won – I’m not a natural star athlete, and each improvement, each step up in miles and speed has been worked at and hard earned. As an athlete, I have discovered my major strength is racing well as the difficulties (heat, distance, hills, discomfort) mount.  I’m fascinated with the role of the mind in athletic performance, and how we place mental limits on ourselves.  People often focus on the mental suffering during long distance racing.  Here’s the trick:  I don’t suffer.  I endure discomfort.  Suffering slows you down.  Discomfort you can slip in your pocket and ignore.  I hold even splits, even in the marathon, even in the Ironman marathon.  I can sit on a bike and climb until I (or usually someone else before me) blow. It’s given me confidence elsewhere in my life, in situations where I’ve lacked self-belief, in a sometimes male-dominated world.  It’s a secret weapon in my arsenal in my regular life outside triathlon and running.  I’ve done Ironman races.  I race marathons. If I can do this, I can do anything.  So this is why I continue to race triathlons and marathons:  to keep pushing myself, driving myself out of my comfort zone, so that I keep evolving and changing and becoming a better me. 

 

Deirdre's finish at the 2014 Boston Marathon
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